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Letter to My Baby

A Letter to My Baby — Written Before You Could Read

Write a handwritten letter to your baby today — capturing exactly who you are in this first year of their life. We'll deliver it on their first birthday, and they'll keep it forever.

Why This Works

Your baby won't remember their first year. That's the strange, poignant thing about new parenthood: the period in their life where you're the most consumed by them, the most transformed by them, the most exhausted and in love — they won't recall any of it. The stories you'll tell them someday are all you'll have to share, and the stories will always be the version you remember, not the version you lived. The actual inside feeling of those first months vanishes the fastest.

A letter, written right now to your baby, pins it down. You write in your real voice, to the specific tiny human sleeping in the other room, on a specific night when you couldn't get them down and ended up writing instead. You describe what they look like today. The things they already do that feel like them. What you're learning about yourself in this first year of parenthood. What you want them to know about who you were when they were new. Then you seal the letter, we hold it, and on their first birthday it arrives in the mail.

They won't read it on that first birthday — they're one. But you will, with them in your lap. And years from now, when they're old enough, they'll read it themselves. They'll meet the version of their parent that existed at the beginning of their life — the one who was still learning how to be anyone's parent, let alone theirs. Most kids don't ever get that. They get a few photos and a lot of retold stories. Your kid is going to get a real letter, in your real handwriting, from the parent you were before you even knew who they were.

How It Works

Three simple steps. One beautiful moment, later.

1

Write Your Letter

Pour your heart onto paper. Use our Letter Helper if you'd like prompts. You decide when it should be opened — 1 year or 2 years from now.

2

We Keep It Safe

Mail your sealed letter to our PO Box. We store it in a climate-controlled, fireproof safe — untouched, unopened, waiting.

3

We Deliver It

On your chosen date, we mail your original, handwritten letter with tracking. Your words arrive exactly when they're meant to.

Your letter is in safe hands

How We Keep Your Letter Safe

You're trusting us with something irreplaceable. Here's what we do about that.

Climate-Controlled & Fireproof

Letters are stored in climate-controlled, fireproof safes — not filing cabinets or cardboard boxes. We treat every letter as irreplaceable, because to someone, it is.

Tracked on Delivery

Every letter ships with an active tracking number, so you (or the recipient) know exactly when it's on its way.

Move? Just Email Us

If your address changes before your delivery date, email us anytime and we'll update your file. Your letter follows you — no extra fee.

Your Words, Always Safe

If Hold My Letter ever closes, every stored letter is immediately mailed back to the sender's return address. No exceptions.

Simple Pricing

One letter. One delivery. One beautiful moment when it returns.

Write now, deliver later

Emailed on your chosen date between 6 months and 2 years out. Add physical mailing for a small fee. Available worldwide — the right choice if you're writing to (or from) outside the United States.

Single Digital Letter

$9

One-time payment

  • Delivered to any email address in 1 or 2 years
  • Instant confirmation email
  • Letter stored securely until delivery date
  • Write to yourself or someone else

+$12 to add physical mailing (first address)

3 Digital Letters

$19

One-time payment

  • Three letters to write now, deliver later
  • Each can go to a different person or email
  • Same secure storage and confirmation
  • Save $8 vs. three single letters

+$12 to add physical mailing (first address)

Physical mailing add-on: +$12 for the first address. Each additional unique address: +$2.

You write it. You mail it in. We mail it back.

The original Hold My Letter experience. Handwrite your letter, seal the envelope, and mail it to our PO Box. We store it in a climate-controlled, fireproof safe until your chosen delivery date — then send it back with tracking, still sealed.

1 Year Letter

$19.99

One-time payment

  • Secure storage for 1 year
  • Mailed back with tracking
  • Your letter stays sealed
  • Verification code system
  • Climate-controlled, fireproof storage

2 Year Letter

$34.99

One-time payment

  • Secure storage for 2 years
  • Mailed back with tracking
  • Your letter stays sealed
  • Verification code system
  • Climate-controlled, fireproof storage

🇺🇸 Currently available for US addresses only. International shipping coming soon!

Questions Worth Answering

Everything you need to know, answered plainly.

What happens to my letter if Hold My Letter goes out of business?
Your memories are safe no matter what. If our operations ever cease, every single stored letter is immediately mailed back to the return address provided by the sender. Your letter will always reach you.
What if I move before my letter is delivered?
No problem at all. Just email us your new address anytime before your delivery date and we'll update it. Your letter follows you wherever you go.
How do you store the letters?
Letters are stored in climate-controlled, fireproof safes — not filing cabinets or boxes. We treat every letter as irreplaceable, because to someone, it is.
Is this the same as the 'Letter to Your New Baby' or pregnancy letter?
Related, but different in emphasis. This page is about the letter itself, addressed to your baby — often written during their first year rather than the pregnancy or day of birth. You can write during pregnancy, in the early weeks, or any time in the first year.
Can both parents write letters?
Absolutely. Two letters, one from each parent, delivered together on the first birthday — one of our most moving gift combinations.
Can I do one every year for the next 18 years?
Yes, and many parents do exactly that. A letter each year, delivered on the next birthday. By the time they're 18, they have an eighteen-letter portrait of their childhood in your handwriting, year by year.

Ready to Write Your Letter?

It only takes 20 minutes. The moment it lands will be worth years.

📖 Free Interactive Guide

Free: The Annual Letter Tradition Starter Kit

12 chapters. Age-by-age writing scripts. Read on the site.