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Pregnancy Letters

A Pregnancy Letter — Written Before They Arrive

Write a handwritten letter to your baby during pregnancy. We'll deliver it on their first birthday — so they'll always have, in your handwriting, the voice of who you were before they were born.

Why This Works

Pregnancy has a voice that disappears the moment the baby is born. Before you've met them, you are already imagining them, already talking to them, already rearranging your life around a person who doesn't technically exist yet. What you think and feel during those nine months is a version of parenthood that will never happen again — because after they arrive, you know who they are, and all the anticipating is replaced by the actual human. The pre-baby parent voice is very real, and it doesn't last.

A letter written during pregnancy captures that voice precisely. You write it in any of the three trimesters — or all three, in separate letters. You talk to the baby. You describe what pregnancy felt like from the inside. What you hoped for. What you were afraid of. The names you considered, the version of your life you pictured. You seal the letter, mail it to us, and on their first birthday (or another date you choose), it arrives.

Years later, your child will read that letter. They'll see a version of you they never met: the parent who was pregnant with them, imagining them into being. They'll know, in your actual handwriting, what it was like to carry them before they could speak. That's a gift that exists for the rest of their life. It doesn't get replaced by anything. It just ages, slowly, into one of the most treasured pieces of paper they'll ever own.

How It Works

Three simple steps. One beautiful moment, later.

1

Write Your Letter

Pour your heart onto paper. Use our Letter Helper if you'd like prompts. You decide when it should be opened — 1 year or 2 years from now.

2

We Keep It Safe

Mail your sealed letter to our PO Box. We store it in a climate-controlled, fireproof safe — untouched, unopened, waiting.

3

We Deliver It

On your chosen date, we mail your original, handwritten letter with tracking. Your words arrive exactly when they're meant to.

Your letter is in safe hands

How We Keep Your Letter Safe

You're trusting us with something irreplaceable. Here's what we do about that.

Climate-Controlled & Fireproof

Letters are stored in climate-controlled, fireproof safes — not filing cabinets or cardboard boxes. We treat every letter as irreplaceable, because to someone, it is.

Tracked on Delivery

Every letter ships with an active tracking number, so you (or the recipient) know exactly when it's on its way.

Move? Just Email Us

If your address changes before your delivery date, email us anytime and we'll update your file. Your letter follows you — no extra fee.

Your Words, Always Safe

If Hold My Letter ever closes, every stored letter is immediately mailed back to the sender's return address. No exceptions.

Simple Pricing

One letter. One delivery. One beautiful moment when it returns.

Write now, deliver later

Emailed on your chosen date between 6 months and 2 years out. Add physical mailing for a small fee. Available worldwide — the right choice if you're writing to (or from) outside the United States.

Single Digital Letter

$9

One-time payment

  • Delivered to any email address in 1 or 2 years
  • Instant confirmation email
  • Letter stored securely until delivery date
  • Write to yourself or someone else

+$12 to add physical mailing (first address)

3 Digital Letters

$19

One-time payment

  • Three letters to write now, deliver later
  • Each can go to a different person or email
  • Same secure storage and confirmation
  • Save $8 vs. three single letters

+$12 to add physical mailing (first address)

Physical mailing add-on: +$12 for the first address. Each additional unique address: +$2.

You write it. You mail it in. We mail it back.

The original Hold My Letter experience. Handwrite your letter, seal the envelope, and mail it to our PO Box. We store it in a climate-controlled, fireproof safe until your chosen delivery date — then send it back with tracking, still sealed.

1 Year Letter

$19.99

One-time payment

  • Secure storage for 1 year
  • Mailed back with tracking
  • Your letter stays sealed
  • Verification code system
  • Climate-controlled, fireproof storage

2 Year Letter

$34.99

One-time payment

  • Secure storage for 2 years
  • Mailed back with tracking
  • Your letter stays sealed
  • Verification code system
  • Climate-controlled, fireproof storage

🇺🇸 Currently available for US addresses only. International shipping coming soon!

Questions Worth Answering

Everything you need to know, answered plainly.

What happens to my letter if Hold My Letter goes out of business?
Your memories are safe no matter what. If our operations ever cease, every single stored letter is immediately mailed back to the return address provided by the sender. Your letter will always reach you.
What if I move before my letter is delivered?
No problem at all. Just email us your new address anytime before your delivery date and we'll update it. Your letter follows you wherever you go.
How do you store the letters?
Letters are stored in climate-controlled, fireproof safes — not filing cabinets or boxes. We treat every letter as irreplaceable, because to someone, it is.
When during pregnancy should I write the letter?
Any time works, and many parents write multiple letters across the pregnancy — one per trimester. Early pregnancy captures the hope and disbelief; late pregnancy captures the anticipation. Both are powerful.
Can both parents write letters?
Absolutely. Two handwritten letters from both parents, delivered together on the first birthday, become a two-voiced record of the pregnancy that the child keeps forever.
What if the pregnancy doesn't go as planned?
The letter is still yours. Many customers who have experienced loss or complication after writing find that the letter, in their own handwriting, becomes one of the most meaningful pieces of what remains. We're gentle with it, whatever you decide.

Ready to Write Your Letter?

It only takes 20 minutes. The moment it lands will be worth years.

📖 Free Interactive Guide

Free: The Annual Letter Tradition Starter Kit

12 chapters. Age-by-age writing scripts. Read on the site.